I deserve Mother's Day

Submitted by beantownmom on April 7, 2006 - 17:16.

I am very excited about Mother's Day this year. Mainly because it will be my first Mother's Day as a Mom but also because I think I deserve it. Ok, I know that sounds a bit high maintenance....well, at least I found the right web site! My husband is the most wonderful man (aside from my father who passed away 2 years ago) in the world but he travels so much that sometimes I feel like a single Mom. I have new respect for single Mom's. My husband had to travel to Asia when our little girl was 2 weeks old and he continues to do so every month for 10 days. I do my best to schedule his family for a visit or I take my daughter and all of her paraphernalia to my Mom's house 2 hours away. It is so hard at her young age (5 months). I cherish the times he is in town and he does his best to spend as much time with her as possible. It's hard for all of us but I am sure it is very hard for my husband who has to be away from us. We love skype.com because we can talk via internet and we also have a camera set up so we can see eachother....that is fun for the baby. So, this Mother's Day I will praise my own amazing Mother, think of all of the single Mom's out there and frankly, give myself a pat on the back and expect my darling husband to take care of the baby for the day. That isnt too much to ask....is it?

( categories: Holidays/Celebrations )
Submitted by HighMaintenanceMom on April 7, 2006 - 23:09.

I hope you have a great Mother's Day!! Here's my post from last Mother's Day when my husband was sick. And my checklist for a perfect Mother's Day, which didn't work with the sick husband but we tried to do a raincheck.

Ten days a month is hard. I find there is an 'ideal' amount of time for my husband to be away depending on how everyone is feeling. We both find that when the other travels we become more efficient. But after a few days, it gets really tiring and then when the other returns, it's hard.

We all deserve a pat on the back every day! It's funny because I was thinking something very similar as I washed the dishes this evening - "I really deserve credit for the countless hours of laundry and dishes because this would be so much harder if I didn't praise myself for it". Good thing I read all those books about proper women in their clean homes... Okay, I'm a little tired and it's been frustrating to have lost my voice for a full week. I'm going to go smile at my sleeping kids and then go to sleep too. Hope you had a good night!

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